Thursday, May 24, 2018

Lifelong Checklist



  1. Road trip.                               
  2. Join a club.       
  3. Start a journal.
  4. Writing letters.
  5. Go to a concert.           
  6. Make new goals.
  7. Stay up all night.
  8. Change your hair.
  9. Get outside more.
  10. Thank your family.
  11. Keeping a journal.
  12. Eat something new.
  13. Attending a funeral.
  14. Attending a wedding.
  15. Stand up for yourself.
  16. Open a bank account.
  17. Trying something new.
  18. Conquer one of your fear.
  19. Shut down media social.
  20. Sending thank-you notes.      
  21. Stand up for someone else.
  22. Wear something ridiculous.     
  23. Buying flowers for yourself.
  24. Re-doing your entire closet.
  25. Making a semi-big purchase.  
  26. Accomplish one of your big goals.
  27. Discovering your “signature drink.”  
  28. Comforting yourself when you cry.
  29. Feeling like you’ve found a soul mate.
  30. Standing in the rain without an umbrella.    
  31. Owning a plant without accidentally killing it.
  32. Make friends with someone outside of your circles.  
  33. Trying the one food that has always grossed you out.          
  34. Owning an animal (even a hamster) and caring for it as well.
  35. Intentionally taking pictures of yourself from your “bad angle.”
  36. Taking a thousand pictures with your best friend, and keeping all of them.
  37. Spending a whole weekend afternoon just walking, with no particular destination in mind. 
  38. Fixing something yourself, even something as simple as a broken curtain rod or lampshade.
  39. Getting really into a new TV show, and spending an entire weekend watching the whole thing.
  40. Buying yourself a big pizza, eating as much of it as you want, and not feeling like you’re a bad person for it.           



Things I Want To Do With You


1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ backlight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together (Actually sleep with each other not sex)
16. One word.....Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.
21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/backlights and music make for great cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear and then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love.
31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss/smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
36. Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell her that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it every day.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA =Public Display of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name.
53. Draw (If you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
59. Guys like half shirts.
60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deals.
61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
66. Look at the way a girl looks right after she’s fallen asleep with her head in your lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your parent’s relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses calling them every 5 minutes
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have.
80. Be Prince Charming to her parents.
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
82. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.
84. Hang out with his/her friends.
85. Go to church/pray/worship together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other or don’t stay together.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to them.
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it
95. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, “Sweet dreams."

Self-care Challenge



Day 1: Go for a walk alone
Day 2: Bake something
Day 3: Learn a new word
Day 4: No social media
Day 5: Get a facial
Day 6: Walk 10,000 steps
Day 7: Draw a picture
Day 8: Relax in a bath
Day 9: Colour a picture
Day 10: Buy something new for bed
Day 11: Go to bed early
Day 12: 30-second dance party
Day 13: Make a vision board
Day 14: Plant something
Day 15: Exercise
Day 16: Make a gratitude list
Day 17: Go on a self-date 
Day 18: Do a puzzle
Day 19: Watch the clouds
Day 20: Call someone
Day 21: No TV, just music
Day 22: Diffuse essential oil
Day 23: Meditate for 5 minutes
Day 24: Watch a TED talk
Day 25: Donate or volunteer
Day 26: Fall asleep to nature sound 
Day 27: Watch a favourite movie
Day 28: Have a cup of herbal tea
Day 29: Light candle or incense 
Day 30: Read a book