Road trip.Join a club.Start a journal.- Writing letters.
Go to a concert.- Make new goals.
Stay up all night.- Change your hair.
- Get outside more.
- Thank your family.
Keeping a journal.- Eat something new.
Attending a funeral.Attending a wedding.Stand up for yourself.Open a bank account.Trying something new.Conquer one of your fear.- Shut down media social.
- Sending thank-you notes.
Stand up for someone else.- Wear something ridiculous.
- Buying flowers for yourself.
Re-doing your entire closet.- Making a semi-big purchase.
- Accomplish one of your big goals.
Discovering your “signature drink.”Comforting yourself when you cry.Feeling like you’ve found a soul mate.- Standing in the rain without an umbrella.
Owning a plant without accidentally killing it.- Make friends with someone outside of your circles.
- Trying the one food that has always grossed you out.
Owning an animal (even a hamster) and caring for it as well.Intentionally taking pictures of yourself from your “bad angle.”Taking a thousand pictures with your best friend, and keeping all of them.- Spending a whole weekend afternoon just walking, with no particular destination in mind.
Fixing something yourself, even something as simple as a broken curtain rod or lampshade.Getting really into a new TV show, and spending an entire weekend watching the whole thing.- Buying yourself a big pizza, eating as much of it as you want, and not feeling like you’re a bad person for it.
Thursday, May 24, 2018
Lifelong Checklist
Things I Want To Do With You
1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle
in the dark or w/ backlight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of
her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together (Actually sleep with
each other not sex)
16. One word.....Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite
cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.
21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie
and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/backlights and
music make for great cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them
find out.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and
their jawbone just below the ear and then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at
midnight.
30. Make love.
31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss/smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say I love you, only when you mean
it and make sure they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of
flowers/candy/poetry etc.
36. Tell her that she’s the only girl
you ever want. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second possible
together.
38. Tell her that she doesn’t have to do
anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Very lightly push up her chin, look
into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only body
language and your eyes.
42. When in public, only flirt w/ each
other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands
in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in their pockets when
they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where
you see it every day.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA =Public Display of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any time alone
together.
52. Tell her about how you answered
every question in math with her name.
53. Draw (If you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in
the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were
eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her
hips/sides.
59. Guys like half shirts.
60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner
for two deals.
61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the
Tramp?)
62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes,
kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their heart
beating, you aren’t close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and
make out/make love.
66. Look at the way a girl looks right
after she’s fallen asleep with her head in your lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write I love you
in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your parent’s
relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses calling them every 5
minutes
73. Even if you are really busy doing
something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell
them you were thinking about them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell her
about them.
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see
them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred
secrets/fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any
kind of religion or worship you have.
80. Be Prince Charming to her parents.
81. Act out mutual fantasies together.
(Not necessarily sexual)
82. Brush her hair out of her face for
her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101
ways to be sweet to them.
84. Hang out with his/her friends.
85. Go to church/pray/worship together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and
remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on
a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make
the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be
with him/her.
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other or don’t stay
together.
93. Write a fictional story about how
you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to them.
94. Let there never be a second during
any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it
95. Love yourself before you love anyone
else.
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign
languages.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each
other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them when someone
talks trash.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight.
And always remember to say, “Sweet dreams."
Self-care Challenge
Day 1: Go for a walk alone
Day 2: Bake something
Day 3: Learn a new word
Day 4: No social media
Day 5: Get a facial
Day 6: Walk 10,000 steps
Day 7: Draw a picture
Day 8: Relax in a bath
Day 9: Colour a picture
Day 10: Buy something new for bed
Day 11: Go to bed early
Day 12: 30-second dance party
Day 13: Make a vision board
Day 14: Plant something
Day 15: Exercise
Day 16: Make a gratitude list
Day 17: Go on a self-date
Day 18: Do a puzzle
Day 19: Watch the clouds
Day 20: Call someone
Day 21: No TV, just music
Day 22: Diffuse essential oil
Day 23: Meditate for 5 minutes
Day 24: Watch a TED talk
Day 25: Donate or volunteer
Day 26: Fall asleep to nature sound
Day 27: Watch a favourite movie
Day 28: Have a cup of herbal tea
Day 29: Light candle or incense
Day 30: Read a book